Spells to Increase Your Self Esteem

There was a time in my life when I hated going to public places. I hated making friends and preferred doing things all by myself.  To some people, I was an introvert but deep inside of me I knew I was battling with low self-esteem.

I was bothered about my looks, skin color, height, and everything. I remember how I would sit in front of the mirror wishing that I was someone else. It was very bad. But guess what? I outgrew that stage. With the help of my angels, I was able to work on my thoughts and the results were excellent.


Are you dealing with low self-esteem? Then I have got a remedy for you.

Simple Spell to Increase Self Esteem

You will need:

  • Lavender essential oil
  • Jasmine essential oil
  • A bath
  • One purple candle
  • One yellow candle
  • An essential oil burner
  • Seven green oak leaves (or basil, if oak is out of season)
  • Purple thread
  • An envelope


  • Run a warm water bath and drizzle some of the lavender oil into the water.
  • Light the candles and float the leaves in the bath and climb in.
  • Take a deep breath, hold it for a while and count to seven.
  • Breathe out through your mouth and count to seven or more. As you breathe in, imagine that your lungs are filled with warm, golden light.

When you breathe out, visualize your frustrations and barriers leaving you. Now, relax for a while and visualize a spot of golden light above you. Watch as it gets bigger and bigger and floats down. Visualize that your body is enveloped in its warm glow. At this point, you can say words that come to your heart and recite the following:


I have a contribution to make.

I have words to say.

Let others hear the words I speak.

And take self-doubt away.

And let it be done, that it harm no one.


Repeat those lines for six or more times and when you are satisfied, leave the bath and snuff the candles off. The next thing to do is to thread the oak leaves using the purple thread then hold them up to the light and repeat the words one more time.

Fold the leaves into the envelope and place them in your wallet or handbag. Anytime you have a bad day, on the next morning, heat the jasmine oil in the burner then relight the candles and hold the leaves up to the flames. Repeat those words for seven times and you will be energized to face the new day with confidence.

Whenever the leaves die, repeat the original spell and your self-confidence will be restored.


A Spell to Ask for Courage

Best Time: Tuesday, Aries sign, waxing or full moon.

To perform this spell, you need to be dressed in red clothes and decorate your altar with red clothes too.

You will need:

  • An essential oil burner
  • One red taper candle
  • One white altar candle
  • Black pepper
  • Some sprigs of holly or honeysuckle
  • Lavender essential oil


  • While the fume of the lavender oil is filling up the air, sprinkle pepper onto the burner.
  • Kneel down and light the white candle.
  • Focus on the flames while asking for the courage that would enable you to face every obstacle that might come your way.
  • Envisage that you are a conqueror then light the red candle.
  • At this point, stand up in front of your altar then raise your hand high and say aloud:


Strength and courage may I possess,

That what I fear, I may face.

In winning through to the other side,

On to victory I will ride.

And let it be done, that it harm no one.


After making that recitation, believe that all your request shall be granted.


Spell 3

A Spell to Inspire You

You will need:

  • Peppermint essential oil
  • A mixing bottle
  • Two teaspoons of almond oil (or any suitable carrier oil)
  • An indigo candle
  • A white candle


  • Pour the almond oil into the mixing bottle then add three drops of peppermint oil to it.
  • Light the white candle and meditate on your intention for a minute or two.
  • Hold your hands in a prayer style then roll the bottle between your hands until you feel that it has been charged with gratitude.
  • Place it on the altar then write the number “1” on the indigo candle.
  • After that, anoint the indigo candle with the charged oil then return it to its holder.
  • Light it and hold your hands towards the flame and say:

I ask of you, Oh Powers that be,

To send inspiration down to me.

To fill my mind with ideas clear,

And remove from me all trace of fear.

And let it be done, that it harm no one.


When you are done reciting those lines, envisage the candle flames as it fills you up with inspiration. Do this until the flames burn down. At this point, believe that you have been filled with inspiration and go out there to do exploits.


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